“The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any.”
The Quiet Surrender: How We Unknowingly Give Away Our Power Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “What difference can I make?” or “Someone else will handle it” ? If so, you’re not alone. These are the quiet whispers of self-doubt that can slowly erode our sense of agency. Alice Walker, the acclaimed writer and activist, put it plainly: “The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any.” It’s a profound observation—and one that deserves reflection. Because it’s not just about political power or social influence. It’s about your voice, your choices, your presence in the world. The Illusion of Powerlessness We live in a world that often tells us power is reserved for the few: CEOs, politicians, celebrities. But that’s a myth. Power doesn't always look like control over others. It often looks like control over yourself—your decisions, your responses, your boundaries. The truth is, power is more internal than external . It starts with bel...